it was actually a gift for me XD

yeah i know i like it

its just a funny thing to wear ^^

say um G....whats it like to be a man...the reson i ask is becose i am still a boy im only 15 and i have five more years to go ya know its just that your allready a man and well ya know im still a boy and i would like to know what its like ya know just asking i know it sounds weird and you dont have to answer if you dont want to

Not that I would be a man, but I have the same age as G, so let me tell you: It's nothing that "happens" suddenly. You won't wake up one day and be a man. You'll grow into it, slowly only. myself, I think I'm still not a real woman. And I don't think there's sth that makes a man to a man. I know boys your age who are mature and 40-yo men who are immature. And you - you are fine the way you are. I know you worry, and I understand it, but you don't have to. *hug*

oh...its not that i worry its just...i had heard wine a boy becomes a man he must leave behind thangs that are childish back then i thought i understud that but back then wine i was a kid i was not the person you know now but its sometimes hard for me to speak up and say what i want to say there are some things im afraid of things i fear but wine i become a father ill have to drop those fears and stop being shy but what scares me is the fact that i wont be able to change wine that time comes...

Becoming a man, is not some kind of ritual, no test of strenght or anny thing involved. Like kari said its about maturity, and i too know a lot of people your age acting more mature then some 40 year olds. Maturity is something you have to grow into, and what i seen so far of you, its already on its way, i know its hard to call yourself a man at your age, i been there my self, i thought i knew so much at that age, today i know how wrong i was. i wish i could write more but this has its limits

i see...i guss i can see how much ive changed over the years back wine i was a kid i was spoiled cryd wine i dident get what i want i hated loseing i all ways wanted things my way and futher back wine i was 5 i had a girl friend but dumpt her wine i was in class and the girls got to work on something and the boys dident and got so jelouse wine i saw her and my brother playing on the trampalen i was a jerk but now i try not to be mean to my brother or sisther and im thankfull for what i have

well thats what child hood is all about, making your mistakes and learn from them, take your experince from the past and learn from them instead of regreting them. some kids are spoiled some arent, its the differences that makes us whole as a race, acceptens is the best way to understand this. Im glad to hear your also content with what you got, but you should also be glad for who you are, confidence is the best way to stand out from a crowd. just dont scream ^^;

um ok....thank you G ...

your welcome

^^ G: That's the reason why I love you... *clings to G and doesn't let him go* Boy: All what you have said - not wanting to lose, wanting everything your way, and then changing this behaviour because it's wrong - THAT's what shows maturity. As G said, one can learn from mitakes, and by doing so, you become a man. Judging everything you've said, I think you are mostly already a man. All you still need to, as do I, is to realize that it doesn't matter what others think about you as long as YOU like yourself.

^^ *holds on to kari no matter what*... boy, in time you will learn more about your self and others, and come to realize thigns you never thought of before, things will change, not always to the better, but as long as there is movement in ones life, there is hope.